“Jesus wept.” John 11:35 If you know me, you may realize why I used this scripture verse with this picture. Or maybe you don’t. This is a picture of my brother, Randy and his wife, Barbie, shortly after their first child Ellyn was born. Ask me about Barbie and you’ll undoubtedly see me cry. She was taken from our family by the dreaded CANCER at the young age of 33 over ten years ago. She left behind my brother and three young children…not to mention many family members too numerous to mention — she was loved by all of us.
This past Sunday our pastor preached on this very verse and reminded us all … if we’re going to be a follower of Christ, we need to connect with people and take the time to know them at a deeper level. We’ve been taught for so long not to cry but everyone needs to cry over someone. Barbie is my someone.
Barbie helped lead me to Christ. She is the first person I ever prayed over. I prayed over her during chemotherapy treatments (when I was able to be there with her) and I prayed for healing while she was hospitalized. And yes, when the time came when we finally realized that she wasn’t going to get better, I prayed for her passing.
Barbie loved her babies. She loved my babies. It’s been hard watching her babies go through all kinds of milestones without her there. I know she would have loved my grandbabies, too…and now her oldest baby (the one pictured above and to the left — kissing my son) is going to have a baby of her own. And yes, I cried when Ellyn told me that if she has a girl, she will name her Barbara.